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Why committed people still use dating apps

I love my girlfriend but I keep swiping on dating apps even though we are exclusive because the validation feels like a drug I cannot quit.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Digital platforms can gamify human connection in ways that make fidelity feel like deprivation rather than choice.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Technology and intimacy?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.