I matched with my coworker's ex and I want to message them but I feel like I need permission first and I don't know why I'm making this so complicated.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're letting imagined social rules prevent you from exploring a connection that might be meaningful, prioritizing others' potential comfort over your own authentic desires.
“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.