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When digital relationships feel safer than real ones

I met someone incredible on a dating app but every time we try to meet in person something comes up and I'm starting to wonder if I prefer the fantasy.

Laozi
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Virtual connection offers the illusion of intimacy without the vulnerability of presence.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Technology and relationships?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.