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Scenario

When investing money makes dating feel like obligation

I paid for premium on two dating apps and now I feel pressure to use them more to get my money's worth but swiping feels like work.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You've turned romance into a transaction where financial investment creates artificial urgency that crowds out genuine desire.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.