LibraryScenariosWhen you perform scarcity to maintain attraction online
Scenario

When you perform scarcity to maintain attraction online

I pretend to be busy sometimes when I'm not because I'm afraid if I'm always available he'll take me for granted even though isn't availability supposed to be love.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Digital relationships can make natural unavailability feel like strategic gameplay.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-distance relationships via technology?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.