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When children stop expecting parents to keep promises

I promised my daughter we'd bake cookies after school three days ago and I keep pushing it off for more urgent things and now she's stopped asking.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The parent's pattern of postponing connection is teaching the child that her desires are perpetually less important than adult obligations.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and time — how they experience it?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.