Periagoge
Scenario

Why setting boundaries feels like betrayal at first

I started saying no to more commitments but now I feel guilty about having boundaries and worry that people think I am selfish or do not care about them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are learning that healthy selfishness is actually a form of service because you cannot give what you do not have.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Time and freedom — when you control yours?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.