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Why setting boundaries feels like betrayal at first

I started saying no to more commitments but now I feel guilty about having boundaries and worry that people think I am selfish or do not care about them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are learning that healthy selfishness is actually a form of service because you cannot give what you do not have.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Time and freedom — when you control yours?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.