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When professionals normalize what feels destructive to you

I told my therapist about my porn use and they said it's normal but it doesn't feel normal to me when I'm doing it at 3am instead of sleeping.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External reassurance cannot resolve internal dissonance when your own experience tells you that something is out of balance with your natural rhythm.

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