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Scenario

When social media stalking derails potential connections

I was supposed to meet someone for drinks tonight but I canceled last minute because I looked at their Instagram stories and realized we have nothing in common.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using incomplete digital information to make definitive judgments about compatibility, avoiding the uncertainty that real encounters require.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.