I'm dating someone from Morocco who thinks it's romantic to spend entire afternoons together doing nothing specific, but I feel anxious and unproductive just sitting in cafes without an agenda.
More people experience this than they realize.
Task-oriented conditioning can make presence-based intimacy feel uncomfortable rather than connecting.
“Where Are You with Monochronic vs. polychronic cultures?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.