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When distance complicates potentially good connections

I've been chatting with someone for weeks and they seem amazing but they live two hours away and I can't decide if that's a dealbreaker or if I'm just making excuses.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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You're letting practical considerations eclipse your investigation of whether this person might be worth the inconvenience that all meaningful relationships eventually require.

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