Periagoge
Scenario

When serial first dates become a pattern of disconnection

I've been on fifteen first dates this year and none led to a second date and I'm starting to think there's something fundamentally wrong with how I show up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're caught in a cycle where the volume of options prevents you from developing the patience and presence that deeper connection requires.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.