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When being single starts feeling like a problem to solve

I've been single for two years and everyone keeps asking when I'm going to find someone and I'm starting to wonder if something is wrong with me for being okay alone.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're allowing others' timelines and expectations to override your own relationship with solitude, questioning contentment that might actually be wisdom.

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