Periagoge
Scenario

Why we sometimes hide our dating intentions

I've been talking to someone for two weeks and they just asked what I'm looking for and I panicked and said I didn't know even though I do know.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're protecting yourself from potential rejection by being dishonest about your desires, but this protection prevents the very connection you're seeking.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.