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Scenario

How avoiding money conversations damages relationships

My brother borrowed money from me eight months ago and hasn't paid it back but bringing it up feels awkward so I just resent him quietly at family dinners.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Financial boundaries require explicit communication, but cultural politeness makes directness feel aggressive.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with East Asian time and face-saving?”

Peri

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