Periagoge
Scenario

When your partner tries to compete with porn fantasies

My girlfriend wants to try things she thinks I'll like based on what she assumes guys want but it's all stuff from porn and feels weird and performative.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The artificial standard has contaminated natural exploration, creating pressure to perform rather than discover what actually brings joy.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pornography in the digital age?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.