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When family pressure forces you to maintain false appearances

My mom keeps asking when I'm getting married and I keep saying 'soon' even though I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago because I can't bear to see her disappointed face again.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of familial expectations creates a prison of deception where protecting others' feelings becomes self-betrayal.

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