My neighbor always asks how I'm doing and actually waits for the real answer but I've gotten so used to rushing that I give the quick response and walk away and I hate that I do this.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've internalized such urgency that you're rejecting the very intimacy you crave.
“Where Are You with African ubuntu time — event-based and relational?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.