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When community obligations feel like burdens rather than connections

My neighborhood does the same block party every year and I go because I should but I spend the whole time wanting to leave.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Social rituals have become performative rather than genuinely connecting experiences.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ceremony and marking time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.