My teenage daughter wants to drop out of advanced classes because she says school makes learning feel like a race instead of a journey and I don't know if she's wise or just avoiding challenge.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're struggling to distinguish between healthy resistance to harmful systems and avoidance of necessary growth.
“Where Are You with African ubuntu time — event-based and relational?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.