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How perfectionism kills spontaneous connection

My text message drafts pile up because I keep starting to reach out to people but then overthinking every word until I just delete the whole thing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to craft perfect communication prevents the imperfect vulnerability that creates real relationship.

Worth thinking about

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