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Why children struggle with sudden transitions

My toddler has a complete meltdown every time I say we have to leave somewhere and I realize I never actually prepared him for transitions, I just expect him to switch gears instantly like an adult.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The adult is imposing linear time expectations on a child who experiences the world as continuous present moments.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and time — how they experience it?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.