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Scenario

When someone says they don't want something serious

Someone I really connected with told me they're not looking for anything serious right now and I said that was fine but I'm already hoping they'll change their mind.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're agreeing to terms that don't match your actual desires, setting yourself up for disappointment while denying them the chance to make an informed choice.

Your guide for this
Laozi
Laozi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dating apps — the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.