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Why the urge to help can push people away

When my friends are sharing their problems I immediately start thinking of advice instead of just listening and they have stopped coming to me when they need support.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The compulsion to solve problems can prevent us from offering the simple presence that people actually need.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Time and love — being present with who you love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.