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Scenario

When friendship boundaries around privacy get crossed

I found out my best friend has been talking about my personal struggles with other people in our circle without asking me, and now I don't know what's been shared or who knows what, and when I confronted her she said she was just worried about me but I feel so exposed and betrayed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Care and concern can become betrayal when shared without consent, leaving both people questioning the safety of intimacy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trust and Fidelity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.