My adult children keep asking me to take sides in their ongoing conflicts with each other and I love them both but I don't know how to refuse without seeming like I don't care. Every family gathering becomes a minefield of old resentments I can't fix.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love multiplied across multiple people sometimes means disappointing everyone in service of the larger whole.
“Where Are You with Grief as spiritual practice?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.