My adult daughter and I have been getting closer since her divorce but now she calls me with every decision and I want to support her without enabling her dependence on me. We're both confused about where healthy support ends and unhealthy enmeshment begins.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to heal someone you love can become indistinguishable from the need to be needed by them.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.