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Scenario

When friends discover they're attracted to the same person

My best friend and I are both attracted to the same person in our grad program and we found out about it in the most awkward way possible during a group project. Now we're navigating this weird territory where we both genuinely care about each other's happiness but also can't pretend we don't feel what we feel, and our entire friend group dynamic has gotten strange.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who value their friendship are confronting how desire can complicate loyalty and whether honest competition can coexist with love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attraction — the science and the mystery?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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