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Scenario

When single friends start competing in dating and relationships

My best friend and I are both single and in our thirties, and we've started competing over the same dating apps and social circles in ways that feel ugly but neither of us wants to address it directly. We used to support each other through dating struggles, but now there's this weird tension when one of us gets attention or a good date.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who once found solidarity in shared singleness now face the complex territory where support and competition blur.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Single and Searching?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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