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When single friends start competing in dating and relationships

My best friend and I are both single and in our thirties, and we've started competing over the same dating apps and social circles in ways that feel ugly but neither of us wants to address it directly. We used to support each other through dating struggles, but now there's this weird tension when one of us gets attention or a good date.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who once found solidarity in shared singleness now face the complex territory where support and competition blur.

Worth thinking about

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