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Scenario

How to navigate friendship when success feels uneven

My best friend and I both applied for the same dream job and she got it, and now we're both pretending everything is normal but there's this weird tension where I'm happy for her and also grieving what I didn't get.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mathematics of scarcity can make even the most generous hearts struggle with the complexity of simultaneous celebration and loss.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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