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How to navigate friendship when you've both loved the same person

My best friend and I both fell for the same person last year and even though they chose her, we're all still in the same social circle and I can't figure out how to be happy for them while also dealing with my own heartbreak and jealousy.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing romantic desires have created a triangle where love, loss, and loyalty are all pulling in different directions.

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