My best friend and I both moved to this neighborhood because we wanted to be part of a real community, but she's become super involved in local politics while I'm more drawn to quiet acts of service, and now we're starting to judge each other's ways of caring.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who share a longing for connection are discovering that their expressions of care can feel like mutual criticism.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.