Periagoge
Scenario

When friends become stuck in shared grievance instead of moving toward healing

My best friend and I both went through divorces last year and we've been each other's lifeline, but lately I think we're keeping each other stuck in our anger instead of helping each other heal. We're so good at validating each other's rage that we never get past it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have found such comfort in their mutual understanding of pain that they've made a home there.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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