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Scenario

When friendships become based on complaining together

My best friend and I have always been the ones everyone comes to with their problems, but lately we just vent to each other about everyone else's drama and I realize we've become people who bond over judgment instead of the deep connection we used to have.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have unknowingly replaced genuine intimacy with the easier intimacy of shared criticism, losing what originally drew them together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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