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Scenario

When personal growth strains a long friendship

My best friend and I have been inseparable for fifteen years but lately I've been growing and changing in ways that feel threatening to her, and she keeps trying to pull me back into who I used to be.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The deepest friendships can become the most resistant to the very changes that make us whole.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.