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When lifelong friendships struggle to evolve with major life changes

My best friend and I have been inseparable for fifteen years but in the last year we've both gone through major life changes — I got married, she started a demanding new career — and we keep saying we need to make more time for each other but when we do hang out it feels forced, like we're trying to recreate something that doesn't fit our lives anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that loving each other across different life seasons requires letting the relationship itself transform.

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