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When long friendships start feeling forced despite deep history

My best friend and I have been inseparable for fifteen years, but lately every time we hang out it feels forced and I can tell she feels it too. We keep making plans and going through the motions but something fundamental has shifted and neither of us will acknowledge it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're both performing a closeness that once came naturally, and the performance itself is creating distance.

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