My best friend and I have been inseparable for twenty years but her drinking has gotten worse and worse and now I don't know the difference between being supportive and being enabling. Every time I try to bring it up she shuts down or gets angry, and I'm terrified that if I push harder I'll lose her, but I'm already losing her anyway.
More people experience this than they realize.
Sometimes loving someone means risking the relationship to save the person, but the line between intervention and abandonment is written in invisible ink.
“Where Are You with How long does grief last??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.