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Scenario

When friends enable each other's unhealthy relationship patterns while trying to be supportive

My best friend and I have been noticing that we both date people who are emotionally unavailable, and when we try to support each other through these relationships, we end up enabling each other's patterns instead of helping each other grow. We can see what the other person is doing so clearly but we're both blind to our own stuff.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The comfort of mutual understanding can become a refuge from the discomfort of genuine change.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Patterns You Bring to Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.