My best friend and I have been noticing that we both date people who are emotionally unavailable, and when we try to support each other through these relationships, we end up enabling each other's patterns instead of helping each other grow. We can see what the other person is doing so clearly but we're both blind to our own stuff.
More people experience this than they realize.
The comfort of mutual understanding can become a refuge from the discomfort of genuine change.
“Where Are You with Patterns You Bring to Love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.