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Scenario

How to navigate friendship fears when becoming roommates

My best friend and I have been planning to move in together for months, but now that it's happening I'm realizing I'm terrified it will ruin our friendship and I think she might be feeling the same way but neither of us wants to say it. We're both just acting excited while privately panicking about what we might lose.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The anticipation of deeper intimacy has revealed how precious and fragile the existing bond feels to both people.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pet loss and grief?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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