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Scenario

When friends have unspoken expectations about big life changes

My best friend and I have been planning to move to the same city after college for two years, but now that it's actually happening I'm realizing we might have completely different visions of what our friendship will look like there and I'm scared to find out.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between what we imagine together and what we've actually discussed can become a chasm when the future arrives.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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