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When close friends realize they have fundamentally different understandings of what love means

My best friend and I have been through everything together for fifteen years but lately we've been talking about how different our definitions of love are — she thinks I'm too guarded and I think she gives too much of herself away. We both wonder if we actually understand what love is supposed to look like.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love each other discover their core beliefs about love itself may be incompatible.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

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