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When longtime friends question the nature of deep friendship versus love

My best friend and I have been through everything together for twenty years — breakups, deaths, job losses, marriages. But now we're both wondering if our friendship is actually love or just shared history, and whether that distinction even matters.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are grappling with whether the deepest bonds transcend categories or whether naming them matters.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

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