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When longtime friends get stuck in the same boundary conflicts

My best friend and I have been through so much together over fifteen years, but lately we've been having the same argument about boundaries and I can feel us both getting more entrenched in our positions. We love each other too much to let this keep eroding what we have, but neither of us knows how to break through to something new.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Deep friendships require intentional tending, especially when familiar conflicts reveal that the relationship itself needs to evolve beyond old ways of being together.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined relationship — building intentionally?”

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