My best friend believes her cancer scare was 'meant to teach her something' and I believe random terrible things just happen, and now when we try to support each other through hard times we keep accidentally invalidating each other's entire worldview.
More people experience this than they realize.
Opposing views about whether grief carries meaning are undermining the friendship that should provide comfort.
“Where Are You with The teacher of grief — every tradition's view?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.