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Scenario

How to forgive a friend who won't acknowledge they hurt you

My best friend borrowed money from me last year and never paid it back, then started avoiding me, and now we're in this weird dance where we both pretend everything is fine when we see each other in our friend group. I want our friendship back more than I want the money, but I don't know how to forgive someone who won't acknowledge what they did.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're learning that sometimes forgiveness means accepting someone's limitations while still honoring your own need for acknowledgment.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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