My best friend borrowed money from me last year and never paid it back, then started avoiding me, and now we're in this weird dance where we both pretend everything is fine when we see each other in our friend group. I want our friendship back more than I want the money, but I don't know how to forgive someone who won't acknowledge what they did.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're learning that sometimes forgiveness means accepting someone's limitations while still honoring your own need for acknowledgment.
“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.