My best friend is going through a devastating divorce and I want to be there for her, but supporting her through this means hearing things about her ex that are changing how I see their whole marriage. I'm struggling with being a good friend while also grieving the loss of relationships and illusions I didn't know I had.
More people experience this than they realize.
Witnessing someone's most intimate relationship dissolve is revealing the limits of what friendship can hold and transform.
“Where Are You with Historical grief — intergenerational mourning?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.