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Scenario

How to support a friend's decision to remarry their ex when you have concerns

My best friend is remarrying her ex-husband after a five-year divorce and I want to be supportive but I was the one who held her through the worst of their breakup and I don't know how to be genuinely happy for this choice. She keeps asking me to help plan the wedding and I keep saying yes while feeling like I'm betraying my own witness to what happened between them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes loving someone means holding space for choices that challenge everything you thought you knew about their well-being.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Remarriage and second chances?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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