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Scenario

When long-distance couples struggle to reconnect during visits

My boyfriend and I have been doing long-distance for two years and we've gotten really good at our video calls and text routines but when we're finally together in person we feel like strangers who have to remember how to be in the same room. It's like we've learned to love each other through screens but forgot how to love each other with our bodies present.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The intimacy you've built across distance doesn't always translate to presence, creating a jarring disconnection precisely when you expect to feel most connected.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-distance love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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