My boyfriend and I keep having the exact same fight my parents used to have about money and planning, and we both see it happening but we can't seem to break out of the pattern. We'll be talking about something simple like vacation plans and suddenly we're in these roles where I'm being controlling like my mom and he's shutting down like my dad did.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're unconsciously recreating familiar dynamics even when you both recognize them as harmful.
“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.